His thoughts are,”I know I’m not gonna marry this girl.” Her thoughts are,”I know I want forever with this guy.”
So who wins?
Right now, it’s impossible for the girl because keep considering the guy’s thoughts about their relationship. One, if he’s so keen on keeping her as “experience” and has no intention of spending forever with this girl, the girl loses. He’s going to put some roadblocks and always remember that this girl isn’t the one and that he’s just playing the game. Sure he’ll reply to her “I love you hubby” with a “I love you wifey” and that might set the tone, but ultimately we really don’t know what’ll become of the couple.
Over time, maybe the guy will loosen up his guard, feel like he’s falling hard for her and eventually be in love with that girl. Or…
The girl will see what he sees and just be in for the ride.
It’s a messy love scenario really.
